Why does someone feel frustated or annoyed in facing his life? That is because he expects too much that his plan will go as he wants to! He never thinks about the failure of his plan. He hasn't learned to accept the mistake of his decision.
That's why, I have never had only one plan for every single expectation I build. When I started laying my future step by step, I set at least five big plans. The first I prepared myself as a football player. Then, I trained hard for being a musician. I also managed my hand for being a cartoonist. Next, I learned to be a writer. And the last, I entered faculty of teaching and education to prepare myself as an English teacher.
Look! What am I now?
We know that only the fifth plan runs well. However, It doesn't need to be frustated and annoyed since I got the whole plans actually. I am a teacher who still can play football on weekend, can enjoy music in my leisure time, can draw a picture during my teaching season, and can write everything as I like.
This way of thinking ensures us to always set up as many as possible the plans we have and try to reach them. When we fail to reach all of them, at least we still have one of them.
